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Wildflowers by the wayside


One dream come true.
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I finally purchased my very first DSLR! :)

I was actually wavering between Pentax K-x and Nikon D3000. Apparently Pentax is rather popular in Europe. However, there seems to be a huge dearth of Pentax cameras on sale in SG. Which also translates into a scarcity of available lenses on sale in future.

So, D3000's my new baaaby. I love her!


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P/s Liren says I have the 'noob syndrome' because I'm so enthusiastic about snapping pics!

I Know Who Holds Tomorrow
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Previously, I avoided writing my 2009 reflections and/or my hopes 2010, because I was struggling to personally review and encapsulate my past year in words, as well as articulate my desires for the upcoming one.

I have reached the point where I have decided that I feel ready to blog briefly about them. And what more apt a time, than on the last day of the first month of the new year?

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If you asked me what colour I would use to describe 2009, i would say, almost without hesitating, 'grey'. There are a couple of factors: My emotions were often in a turbulent state and I had difficulty coping with being in a LDR. Coupled with this, was a readjustment back to SG (the 1st few months) from Germany, as well as getting used to my first proper job (and all the feelings of inadequacies @ work etc). Also, not being close to God.

However, rightly or wrongly, what overshadowed 2009, and coloured it grey, was mainly the LDR. Time and again, I tried hard to be positive, to apply what we teach our clients at work. To create happy moments for myself. I cried out to God to make things easier.

Eventually, my trying so hard not to be consumed sapped even more energy and life from me, and left me drained - physically, emotionally, spiritually. Honestly, I was merely going through the motions of daily life; counting down the passing of months. But He carried me through - words of encouragement from friends, family, His Word.

In year 2010, I want to walk closer to God, to seek His will for my life. After the crisis towards the end of last year,  I am absolutely sure that I no longer want to be slave to negative emotions, like I was last year. If I find myself once again headed down the same familiar well-trodden path, if need be, I would rather end this relationship than continue to live my life in the shadows of unhappiness.

I hope for 2010 to be vibrant and memorable. And I want to be Happy. And Happier. Happy in the Lord, and at peace with myself.
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Let me share with you a few verses of one of the hymns that has always been a comfort to me:

"I don’t know about tomorrow,
I just live from day to day.
I don’t borrow from it’s sunshine,
For it’s skies may turn to gray.

I don’t worry o’er the future,
For I know what Jesus said,
And today I’ll walk beside Him,
For He knows what is ahead.

Many things about tomorrow,
I don’t seem to understand;
But I know Who holds tomorrow,
And I know Who holds my hand..."


- I Know Who Holds Tomorrow by Ira Stanphill

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Waiting on God -
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no easy task!
 
i like this picture
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this is my laptop wallpaper for February.
and yes, it underscores the importance of prayer :)

when two become one
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my cousin jeffrey just tied the knot with his social worker girlfriend (good choice!! HAHA) on Sunday.

here are some brief random pics that i took at the wedding lunch with my brother's not-so-good-in-low-lighting camera.
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our table (cheesy heart-shaped decorations on the stage in the background)
- our family sat together so we had plenty of 'socializing and taking photos' time :D
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the 'grand entrance' of bride and groom. swarmed by paparazzi
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one of the dishes! i purposely took from this fantastic angle...i know who will love this :D
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bride & groom pouring champagne into the pyramid of glasses.
it's supposed to symbolise overflowing happiness or something like that.
(note that the bride has changed into her evening gown, unlike in germany where she wears white the whole night)
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i've no idea what this crossing-of-hands-to-drink-the-champagne is supposed to symbolise...but it's always done.
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family & friends join the couple on stage to do the 'YAMMMMMMMM SENGGGGGGG!!!!!!' ('Prost' auf Deutsch)
(note the lady standing to the right of the bride..she's her twin!)
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and lastly, here's a cute and silly family pic together (out of the tons we took). we were all supposed to make funny faces! my mum copped out tho. haha.

doesn't my dad look so adorable??!
i've to say it again...i loooove my family :)
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"...time is a valuable thing
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Watch it fly by as the pendulum swings
Watch it count down to the end of the day..."

- Linkin Park, In the End

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How i wish i could fast-forward to the end of the first half of the year!

Race option for kids
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Extract of article from the front page of today's Straits Times.
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By Kor Kian Beng


THREE-YEAR-OLD Rowena Eber has a Eurasian father and a Chinese mother.

When she was born, she was given her father's race: Eurasian.

But her parents, assistant manager Christian Eber and polytechnic lecturer Josephine Tan, both in their 30s, will have the option to change her race classification to Eurasian-Chinese when a new rule is introduced. Parliament was told yesterday that such double-barrelled race classifications will be allowed in due course.

Said Mr Eber last night: 'We think a double-barrelled classification may have advantages for Rowena. It may help her connect better with the Chinese language and culture.'


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INDIAN-CHINESE, Malay-Indian, Chinese-Malay or Eurasian-Chinese?

Parents from different races can soon pick these 'double-barrelled' race classifications for their newborns, said Senior Minister of State Ho Peng Kee in Parliament on Tuesday.

But in making the choice, they have to decide which of the two races is to come first when registering the child's birth at the Immigration & Checkpoints Authority (ICA), said Associate Professor Ho, of the Law and Home Affairs ministries.

This is to help the child identify better and be 'culturalised' with a particular race, he added.


What Makes Singaporeans Happy (ST 7 Jan)
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Singaporeans are happy when the Government rolls out a family-friendly Budget. Singaporeans are annoyed by service staff who are not passionate about their work or cannot speak English well. Depending on the performance of their investments, Singaporeans may love or loathe coffee shop talk about the stock and property markets.

These snapshots motivated us to study three things Singaporeans consider when they evaluate their quality of life: happiness, enjoyment and achievement. In a recently published book that we wrote, The Wellbeing of Singaporeans, we reported that more than one in four Singaporeans (27.5 per cent) are very happy with their life and about half (51.1 per cent) are quite happy while less than 1 in 100 (0.9 per cent) are very unhappy. Singles are the happiest lot while the middle-income group is the least happy.

But what makes Singaporeans happy? We found five contributing factors: fluency in English, satisfaction with personal life (for example, standard of living and health), satisfaction with interpersonal life (for example, friendships and family life), pride in being a Singaporean, and the perception of how the Government deals with ethnic diversity.

Singaporeans who are more fluent in English reported more happiness. In Singapore, those who speak English better tend to be more educated and hold higher-paying jobs. This is consistent with other analyses in our book showing that Singaporeans who are highly educated with medium to high levels of incomes are the happiest.

While financial resources are important, Singaporeans also found happiness in relationships with those close to them. Satisfaction with personal and interpersonal lives is associated with more happiness.

In addition, Singaporeans’ happiness has a broader social dimension: national pride and the performance of the Government. The prouder Singaporeans are of their nation, the happier they are.

The Government’s role in ensuring that the different ethnic groups co-exist harmoniously also affects happiness. The more Singaporeans perceive the Government to have been effective in dealing with ethnic diversity, the happier they are.

Apart from happiness, enjoyment of life also contributes to quality of life. More than one in 10 Singaporeans (11.5 per cent) never or rarely enjoy life. We observed that low-income Singaporeans enjoy life the most while the highly educated enjoy life the least. Satisfaction with personal life, satisfaction with interpersonal life, and national pride also affected Singaporeans’ enjoyment of life.

Finally, do Singaporeans think that they have achieved the most out of life? Almost one in four Singaporeans (23.9 per cent) feels that he or she has accomplished nothing or very little in life.

Ironically, it is the low-income earners who feel they have accomplished much while the high-income group feels exactly the opposite. We found that the higher the household income, the more a Singaporean feels that he or she has not achieved much in life. Perhaps such families have expectations that are so high that their members feel that they have not accomplished much. Alternatively, they may feel that they have not pushed themselves to their limits because their lives have been comfortable thus far.

As with happiness and enjoyment, personal life satisfaction and national pride affect one’s sense of achievement. But what’s interesting is that the perception of the quality of public services also matters. Singaporeans who believe that the Government is doing a good job in providing public services also tend to feel that they have accomplished much in life.

What do these findings tell us about Singaporeans? While they are generally a happy lot, more can be done to help them appreciate their own achievements and to find more enjoyment in life. Perhaps they have forgotten how to savour simple pleasures.

They may also be setting themselves up for disappointment by imposing unrealistically high expectations on themselves. A balance must be struck between setting and striving towards standards of achievement and ensuring personal well-being in other areas of one’s life.

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CONTENTMENT. I feel that is what we (people in general) often lack. In my opinion, being content does not equate settling for less; rather, it is to find joy in what we already have (and does not negate striving for more, either). It really is ironic how the higher-educated/higher-income group generally seems to be less content with life.

I don't want to go through my entire life viewing my glass as half empty. Do you?



p/s: And on a side note, i think it is really hypocritical for those Singaporeans who get annoyed by service staff who cannot speak English properly. Hello? Please give these people a break. I'm sure it's not easy for them, and I'm sure they are already trying.
And besides, what gives you the right to scoff at others, when you yourselves often speak in the mangled 'language' of Singlish that you proudly call English, but is often barely understood by non-Singaporeans?


Frohes Neues!
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Blessed New Year :)

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Lets hope I get some clarity in 2010 :)

yes, christmas is still very much in the air here...
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Simple decorations in the town centre. Nothing overly fancy like along Orchard Road. haha

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The final day of the Weihnachtsmarkt (Christmas market). The Altes Rathaus (old townhouse) can be seen in the background.


countdown...
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1.5 more days to 2010!

Frosting on the rooftops,
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slush on the streets.

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Blessed Christmas, everyone!

freezing in a winter wonderland...
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it's snowing! :)

tell me, again.
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Yesterday, i happened to take a I&R (Intake & Referral) call from a client who wanted counselling to see if he and his fiancee could work through some issues before tying the knot.

Of all the things he shared, the one that struck me most was his almost casual remark "is love enough?" Having no doubts that he loved her, but having doubts if that was enough to sustain a marriage, given the other factors.

Good question.

p/s im on time off today! my holiday has officially begun :)

leaving in 22 hours...
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dont feel particularly excited though.

I hope you Dance.
a child's unbridled joy
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I hope you never lose your sense of wonder,
You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger,
May you never take one single breath for granted,
GOD forbid love ever leave you empty handed,
I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens,
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

I hope you dance....I hope you dance.

I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance,
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Livin' might mean takin' chances, but they're worth takin',
Lovin' might be a mistake but it's worth makin',

Don't let some hell bent heart leave you bitter,
When you come close to sellin' out reconsider,
Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

I hope you dance....I hope you dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance.
(Time is a wheel in constant motion always rolling us along,
Tell me who wants to look back on their years and wonder where those years have gone.)

I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

Dance....I hope you dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance.
I hope you dance....I hope you dance..

- Lee Ann Womack
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I didn't bring my hp to work today, and despite my initial thought: 'crap, so inconvenient', i realise it can be strangely liberating to be rather uncontactable (well, not totally since there's email and internet sms - oh the wonders of the IT age).

hmm how did we ever survive in the good old days of the public payphone? for better or for worse, I think we've become slaves to technology.


on a side note, 5.45pm is drawing near, and im off to Holland Village for mexican food with the gals!

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The courage
to face the
torrents
within your
insidious darkness.

Believing, forgetting
Hoping the unexpected
Distraught with sweetness
Contorted with Agony
Fight, let go.

-- Julaina 2009, scribbled on a napkin while sitting in Wala Wala's ;)

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I must learn to be more content with wherever God has placed me in life :)

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
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"All weddings are similar, but every marriage is different."
- John Berger


"Marriage is like a phone call in the night: first the ring, and then you wake up. "
- Evelyn Hendrickson
(i like this one! haha)

"Love is blind, but marriage restores its sight."
- Georg C. Lichtenberg


"Marriage is not a noun; it's a verb. It isn't something you get. It's something you do.
It's the way you love your partner every day."

- Barbara de Angelis


Only two things are necessary to keep one's wife happy. One is to let her think she is having her own way, the the other, to let her have it."
- Lyndon B. Johnson


To keep your marriage brimming,
With love in the loving cup,
Whenever you're wrong admit it;
Whenever you're right shut up.

- Ogden Nash


"I think men who have a pierced ear are better prepared for marriage. They've experienced pain and bought jewelry."
- Rita Rudner


"Getting a dog is like getting married. It teaches you to be less self-centered, to accept sudden, surprising outbursts of affection, and not to be upset by a few scratches on your car."

- Will Stanton


"Men marry to make an end; women to make a beginning."
- Alexis Dupuy


youthhostel in Harz
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My Ukraine friends in Deutschland bought themselves a Jugendhotel (youth hostel) near the Harz Mountains...ahhh...

AND, December is here.
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